Good Person????? why not!!!!!

in our live sometimes we very difficult to see where is the good person and the bad person,,,,

if we want to be good person we must know what we must do, and what we cannot do...

here I have some tips for us the way to be a good person....

1.     Identify what it is that being a good person means to you personally. Some people think that being a good person is as simple as not doing harm to another, but it is not always about what you don't do, but what you do for others

2.    Try to look at the bright side of things. The Motto of the Christophers says: "It is better to light a single candle than it is to curse the darkness." Be that light. When you see controversy, try to be the one who changes the subject by suggesting a solution. Don't state what you would do, but ask everyone to get involved.

3.     Accept everyone around you as your brothers and sisters no matter what race, age, sexual orientation, or culture. Realize that we all have feelings, and should be treated with respect.

4.    Don't try to correct people when they're angry by saying something irrational, just look with compassion and remain quiet. Saying 'I understand' is usually the wrong answer. If you say anything at all, just say, "I'm sorry you feel this way, is there anything I can do to help?"

5.    Stop comparing others with yourself. Try to understand that some have it better than you in life, but at the same time, many have it much worse. When we make ourselves miserable by comparing ourselves with others, we are wasting time and energy that we could use in building our own inner resources. Real life is found in using our own gifts and talents than over focusing on the gifts of another.

6.    Every day, try to do an act of charity for some one else, even if it's something small. Even reach out to people who have been cold or indifferent to you. An act of kindness and generosity can go a long way.

7.    Be respectful of elderly people.

8.    Be compassionate towards mentally challenged people for they are people with feelings to, and they are brothers and sisters as well

9.    Compliment friends whom you might be jealous of, and people you don't know as well as you would like to.

10. Be a better listener than talker. Follow what the person is saying, and confirm this with a follow up question on the topic, then they will know that you're paying attention to them.

11.  Don't try to get attention by hiding or being rude when you are in an argument with a friend, talk to them and work it out

12. Celebrate others' victories and good qualities, even when you do not feel as blessed as they do.

13. Love yourself. Practice unconditional self-acceptance. It is a lot easier to love others, but first you have to have confidence and love yourself.

14. Make it a point that before you leave your house, that when you return that the world will be a much better of a place to live in

15. Pray and meditate to help cultivate the qualities you seek to embody.

16. Cultivate both compassion and good karma through volunteer service.

17. Share your life and good philosophies with others.

18. Don't be in a hurry in life, slow down and enjoy the fine and simple things of life.

19. Only use the horn in you car in an emergency, not to blow at a little old lady or man that can barely see over the wheel.

20.Don't take the closest parking space at the store. Choose one further away and figure it to be the exercise that you may need. Leave the ones close for those that need them.

21. Always insist on serving yourself the smaller portion of the food when dining with others. Never take the biggest piece of pizza or slice of meat, for you will appear greedy to those you are dining with.

22.Even doing simple things, such as smiling at someone who seems unhappy or holding the door open for a stranger, will help you become a better person.

23.To start you mission to become a good person, please read this list every day and make it a part of you.

24.Don't try to be like somebody else; just be yourself and do good things as simply as you can show and manage to do.

25.Remember to always be yourself and never who you're not. It's always good to be a good person. But yourself is a part of you,and you must respect that.

good Luck!!!!