in our live sometimes we very difficult to see where is the good person and the bad person,,,,
if we want to be good person we must know what we must do, and what we cannot do...
here I have some tips for us the way to be a good person....
1.
Identify what it is that
being a good person means to you personally. Some people think that being a
good person is as simple as not doing harm to another, but it is not always
about what you don't do, but what you do for others
2.
Try to look at the
bright side of things. The Motto of the Christophers says: "It is
better to light a single candle than it is to curse the darkness." Be that
light. When you see controversy, try to be the one who changes the subject by suggesting a
solution. Don't state what you would do, but ask everyone to get
involved.
3.
Accept everyone around you as your brothers and
sisters no matter what race, age, sexual orientation, or culture.
Realize that we all have feelings, and should be treated with respect.
4.
Don't try to correct people when they're angry by saying something
irrational, just look with compassion and remain quiet. Saying 'I
understand' is usually the wrong answer. If you say anything at all, just say,
"I'm sorry you feel this way, is there anything I can do to help?"
5.
Stop comparing others with yourself. Try to understand
that some have it better than you in life, but at the same time, many have it
much worse. When we make ourselves miserable by comparing ourselves with
others, we are wasting time and energy that we could use in building our own
inner resources. Real life is found in using our own gifts and talents than over focusing on
the gifts of another.
6.
Every day,
try to do an act of charity for some one else, even if it's something small.
Even reach out to people who have been cold or indifferent to you. An act of
kindness and generosity can go a long way.
8.
Be compassionate towards
mentally challenged people
for they are people with feelings to, and they are brothers and sisters as well
9.
Compliment friends whom you might be jealous of, and
people you don't know as well as you would like to.
10.
Be a better listener
than talker.
Follow what the person is saying, and confirm this with a follow up question on
the topic, then they will know that you're paying attention to them.
11. Don't try to get attention by hiding or being rude
when you are in an argument with a friend, talk to them and work it out
12. Celebrate others' victories and good qualities, even
when you do not feel as blessed as they do.
13. Love yourself. Practice unconditional self-acceptance.
It is a lot easier to love others, but first you have to have confidence and
love yourself.
14. Make it a point that before you leave your house,
that when you return that the world will be a much better of a place to live in
16. Cultivate both compassion and good karma through
volunteer service.
17. Share your life and good philosophies with others.
18. Don't be in a hurry in life, slow down and enjoy the
fine and simple things of life.
19. Only use the horn in you car in an emergency, not to
blow at a little old lady or man that can barely see over the wheel.
20.Don't
take the closest parking space at the store. Choose
one further away and figure it to be the exercise that you may need. Leave the
ones close for those that need them.
21. Always insist on serving yourself the smaller
portion of the food when dining with others. Never take the biggest piece of
pizza or slice of meat, for you will appear greedy to those you are dining
with.
22.Even
doing simple things, such as smiling at someone who seems unhappy or holding
the door open for a stranger, will help you become a better person.
23.To
start you mission to become a good person, please read this list every day and
make it a part of you.
24.Don't
try to be like somebody else; just be yourself and do good things as simply as you
can show and manage to do.
25.Remember
to always be yourself and never who you're not. It's always good to be a
good person. But yourself is a part of you,and you must respect that.
good Luck!!!!
